In Horney's theory, the self-effacing neurotic style is exemplified by seeking

• A. Affection
• B. Security
• C. Autonomy
• D. Love

Answer: (D)

The key idea here is that the self-effacing, or compliant, neurotic style in Horney’s theory is motivated by a need to be loved and approved by others. People who fit this style try to win affection by being unusually agreeable, yielding, and self-sacrificing, hoping that such behavior will elicit warmth, care, and acceptance. The drive behind their actions is the desire for love and positive regard, so they tailor themselves to please others and avoid conflict or rejection. That makes love (affection) the best fit for what they are seeking.

Security or autonomy don’t perfectly capture this specific motive. Security aligns more with fears of danger or instability that other neurotic trends emphasize, while autonomy describes pulling away to gain independence and safety, not the closeness they strive for. Affection and love are basically the same underlying aim in this context—being valued and loved by others—so the choice reflecting that aim is the most accurate.